Tony Robbins did a relationship and passion workshop that I took a while back and introduced a concept he called letting her storm on you.
Unshakable Love
The way he was teaching it was the idea that men, in our divine masculine energy, can be so grounded and connected to source that our partner could literally call us a thousand names, accuse us of a million things, and even start hitting us, and we would stand there just loving them.
I am glad you are telling me all of this. I want to hear you and be strong for us. I see you and we are going to figure this out.
It was this idea that by showing up unconditionally and still loving the one before us, we would inspire the relationship to new heights. That the divine masculine awakened the divine feminine and that polarity created passion.
Beyond Romance
The premise is to be unshakable in your unconditional love. That is such a powerful stance to take and to master for anyone. And it does not just apply to romantic relationships. It applies to your relationship with everyone, everything, and with reality itself.
If you have shown up less than unconditionally in relationships, that is okay. We do not ever have to look back and start regretting anything we have done previously in the face of new awareness. The awareness that we want to do things differently is the gift our past gives us.
Egoless Power
When you can let life storm on you and still show up saying thank you, life, I hear you and I am not sure what this is teaching me but I know it is and I want to learn so I can be strong for us.
And then love reality as it is without judgment. When you can let life storm on you and trust that the reality simulation, your life, is absolutely perfect even if you do not know why. When you can do that in every moment, that is egoless power.
Most people are trying to create some scenario in their life to get social power. But social power is not real or lasting.
Available Right Now
Egoless power is available to you right now. And it is forever.
What you are searching for is not a relationship, a job, a business, debt relief, or anything else. What you are searching for is egoless power. And you can have that right now.
You unlock it by accepting that even if you do not understand why, the reality simulation is perfect, always.
And because of that perfection, you let life storm on you and you respond with grace. That is how you show up in strength.
And in that graceful stance of egoless power, the world becomes yours.