Tricks are for hookers, these are illusions

by Jon Ray on January 23, 2009

Natalie Dylan: CNN

If you haven’t heard, Natalie Dylan (a pseudonym) is actioning off her virginity to the highest bidder (current bid $3.8 million!). I was quoted in the CNN article, ‘What is virginity worth today?‘ saying,

In a world that is teeming with brand messages, with sponsorships everywhere, intimacy is really just the next thing to go.

This has, obviously, thrown up a few moral/religious concerns for many people. Is what Natalie Dylan is doing prostitution? She admits it is and goes further saying, “Honestly, even if I didn’t do this, I’d always be the girl who thinks prostitution is OK.” So, what do you think? Is this prostitution? If so, is that such a bad thing? After all, she’s doing it in Nevada, where prostitution is legal and 3.8 million dollars will buy a LOT of schooling, which is what 22-year old, Natalie initially started the auction to pay for according to Telegraph.co.uk.

Natalie does not plan on pursuing a career in prostitution, it’s a one time deal. So, other than the fact that she is a virgin (she’s willing to be medically tested to prove this fact) is this really that different from a girl going home with some random guy because she’s lonely and he bought her a few drinks? Would you feel differently about this whole scenario if Natalie were at a bar and working for drink commissions, then decided to go home with a guy because he bought her four deliciously alcoholic drinks…at a million dollars a drink?

If you were/are still a virgin, how would the Natalie Dylan story effect you? If you are a parent with a daughter, what do you say to your kid when this story flashes across the television? Is sex even that big a deal anymore? What would you do with $3.8 million dollars?

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  • I read that article a few days ago and thought it was really interesting.
    In her case, I believe its just a publicity stunt to get people talking.....

    As far as what I personally think of it, her actions are offensive to me since I am a Christian teenager. I believe a woman's virginity is valuable, and should not be made into a big media thing just for attention.... :/

    Nothing against her though. :)
  • I don't have a problem with prostitution. Hell, many of us go to desk jobs every day and sell pieces of our soul for money. And we give our bodies away for a variety of reasons. I would like to be more aghast at her giving away her virginity this way, but I can't. Honestly I think it's quite impressive that she's still a virgin at 22. I'm more concerned about what's going on with pre-teens and sexuality these days then what decisions and adult woman makes about her sexuality. And lord knows you can wait for the "perfect" moment with the "perfect" partner and still end up hurt and miserable. And if I thought someone would give me 3.8 million dollars for sex I'd be all over it. ;)
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